Aries: March 21st – April 19th

You get passion confused with love. You always end up in the kind of relationship where you’re screaming your lungs out at two in the morning. Where you’re either busy fighting or lovemaking. You might not realize it yet, but there’s a part of you that thinks that healthy relationships are boring and that toxic relationships are exciting.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

You get too clingy. Too territorial. You spend too much time with your partner and not enough time on your own. And when your partner does go out without you, you blow a fit out of jealousy. You turn healthy relationships into toxic ones by being way too possessive.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

You kind of like the chase. You like the drama. That’s why you end up in almost relationships again and again. You fall for people who are attracted to you, but aren’t ready to commit to you. People who will date you, but will also cheat on you.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

As soon as you develop feelings for someone, you start making excuses for them. You ignore all of the red flags and let yourself get walked over. You let the person you care about treat you like crap, because you’re worried they’ll leave if you start sticking up for yourself.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

You like when your partner gets jealous. You like that they want to have you all to themselves. You take their possessiveness as a compliment — even though it’s a red flag. Even though it means they’re trying to control you.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

You keep ending up in toxic relationships, because you feel like it’s safer to stay single. And if you only date people who are bad for you, you can trick yourself into believing that relationships suck. That you don’t really want a life partner and are happier alone.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

You care more about making other people happy than finding happiness yourself. You keep ending up in toxic relationships because you’re a people pleaser. As long as they’re happy, you’re happy. Even if they treat you like crap.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

You keep ending up in toxic relationships, because your standards are too low. You don’t believe you deserve love. So you settle for people that are below you.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

You keep ending up in toxic relationships, because you care about sexual tension more than forming a genuine connection. If the sex is good, then you stay with them, even if you don’t really like them as a person.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

You still hate your ex for what they did to you. You’re bringing your baggage into every new relationship and ruining it before giving it a real chance. You’re letting your past corrupt your future.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

You fall in love too fast. You end up in toxic situations, because you keep jumping into relationships before getting to know the person. You create a picture of them in your head and assume that they’re exactly like that in real life.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

You get stuck in toxic relationships, because you don’t like to be mean. You don’t want to break up with someone, even when it becomes clear they aren’t right for you, because you’re worried about hurting their feelings. You’re worried about losing them as a friend.