1. “I hate my body. It makes me so insecure that while his face is between my legs all he’s going to look up and see is huge thighs around his face and my big belly in view of my face.” – Sara, 22
2. “I’m definitely insecure about my orgasms. I cum like a waterfall and I know that most girls don’t so it makes me insecure. I feel like guys don’t expect it because most girls don’t squirt if they even achieve an orgasm, so it’s shocking to them and it always makes me feel a little bit nervous while hooking up with someone new.” – Carrie, 26
3. “I feel like my vagina looks weird. I have ‘roast beef curtains’ and I’m always extremely self-conscious about it because they have such a bad and embarrassing reputation that it makes me hate my vagina.” – Kevina, 24
4. “I get so nervous that I’m boring him. I hate that I feel like I’m not good enough to give him the pleasure he needs. I feel like sex should be fun, but the sex I’m currently having with my boyfriend isn’t very fun.” – Lisa, 29
5. “My biggest insecurity is my body. I can barely enjoy sex because I am so self-conscious about what he actually thinks of my body. I know he obviously must be into me if he’s having sex with me, but I just have so many negative thoughts running through my mind.” –Elizabeth, 27
6. “I have a very low sex drive. I don’t even want to have sex and I know admitting that makes me sound like some sort of freak, but I’m much happier sitting at home with my vibrator. In my opinion that is better than having to get naked in front of someone who probably has no intentions of calling me again. I just don’t feel like I need sex, so when it’s time for me to get in bed it isn’t much fun.” – Cassie, 25
7. “My biggest insecurity is that I can make myself cum more than any guy I’ve ever been with. I hate that I have to act like I’m enjoying myself when I know that I could do it much better myself. I try to redirect him, but there’s only so much confidence crushing you can do in bed.” – April, 30
8. “This is a tough one, but I have an STD. It literally feels like it’s ruining my life because it’s definitely ruining my sex life. I hate it so much, but now I’ve learned that protection is key. It just sucks I had to learn the hard way.” – Bella, 26
9. “I’m extremely insecure about my breasts. I have pepperoni nipples and I hate them.” – Nia, 24
10. “I’ve been having sex with my husband for many, many years now and while the sex stays good my body image is getting worse. I feel like after I had kids I became unattractive and sex is a routine thing now. The passion isn’t there like when we were younger and I don’t know if it’s because my body has gone through changes, but it makes me feel insecure.” – Scarlet, 34
11. “I can’t orgasm and it makes me so insecure. He could be fingering me, eating me out or fucking me and nothing ever happens. I think there was one time in my whole life that I actually came and it was years ago with my ex boyfriend. It makes me insecure because it feels good, but it’s never enough.” – Shelly, 26
12. “I just really hate my body. It turns me off and makes me insecure. I constantly run through things I’ll do differently like eating better and working out while I’m having sex because I get so, so insecure while I’m naked and someone’s on top of me.” – Tammy, 21
13. “I have to pretend my boyfriend is someone else in order to feel good about the sex. It’s so wrong, but I’m just not turned on by him anymore. He really let himself go and while I love him as a person he doesn’t turn me on sexually anymore. It makes me feel horrible, but I don’t know what else to do.” – Val, 23
14. “I’m insecure when I’m on top riding him. I feel like he is just gazing up at my body bouncing around on top of him like a whale out of water. I don’t have enough confidence in my sexual performance to ease that thought from my mind.” – Zoe, 27 
